16 November 2011 | 19 Cheshvan 5772

“Gratitude is the foundation of both happiness and goodness. Neither happiness nor goodness is possible without gratitude. If all human beings were grateful, there would be little evil in the world.” (Dennis Prager, syndicated radio talk show host and author)

Dennis Prager and I have our differences, but I think the sentiment he expresses here is true.  In the absence of a spirit of gratitude it is difficult to recognize goodness and to experience happiness.  We’re not always aware of the link between gratitude, happiness, and goodness but when you take a moment to consider it, you will recognize that necessary link.  Without the foundation of gratitude, happiness and the recognition of goodness remain elusive.  

Is it natural to say, “Thank you?”  For many of us, the answer is “Yes.”  Does a genuine spirit of gratitude underlie every expression of gratitude?  I doubt it.  Think about it.  How often do you say “Thank you” because you know that is the appropriate thing to say in the moment, but hardly give the sentiment a thought?  They are merely words offered automatically in a given situation rather than a heartfelt sentiment.  I know I am “guilty” of offering unthinking thanks.

It is difficult, probably not even realistic, to offer the words “Thank you” or similar sentiments with heartfelt feeling every time we say them.  But we ought to strive to really mean the words we say more often than we likely do now.

The holiday of Thanksgiving seeks to inculcate a grateful spirit and nurture heartfelt expressions of gratitude.  The special services we hold at this time of year have precisely that purpose.

I hope you will join us this Sunday, November 20, 6:30pm at Northside United Methodist Church, 2799 Northside Drive NW (just south of North Atlanta High School), for the annual Thanksgiving service of our local congregations.  This interfaith gathering is one of our rare opportunities to truly share in a spiritual experience with our neighbors.  Dr. Herb Karp will blow shofar, and it will be my pleasure to offer the sermon this year.

Come be with us.  Enjoy the feeling of community and nurture your spirit of gratitude.